Tis the season, to go shopping.
Whether it starts on Black Friday, or on the encroachment of Black Friday into Thanksgiving day, or whether one waits until “Cyber Monday,” or even until the last minute, the time has come for all of us to start looking for that perfect gift for everyone on our holiday and Christmas shopping lists.
Personally, I’m a fan of getting links to items that the loved ones on my list want. It’s especially helpful when my younger family members send me links, or when links are sent to me on behalf of the youngest ones. I really don’t find it impersonal but rather helpful. After all, I do want to get people something they want, so for me the guarantee that I have done so is a good thing.
I do have to say that I find a bit of enjoyment in getting someone a gift they truly do like without direction though. It shows that I know the person well enough to get it right on my own.
No one has asked me yet this year what I want for Christmas. I’m okay with that because I don’t really have an answer.
I could say that the one thing I want most no one in this world will ever be able to give me. While that is a true statement, I wouldn’t give that as an answer because, while not intended to be condescending, it would sound that way as it comes from a place of long-standing pain.
I could also say that I have received tremendous gifts time and again throughout this year.
I have been given a job opportunity that has proved to be a reasonably good fit.
I have gotten the gift of time back when friends, and family, have given me a ride home when I would have otherwise had to wait for at least two more hours before getting home to do the things I need and want to do.
I have been allowed to be myself and to be honest with friends when I wasn’t at my best, or when I just wasn’t able to be fun company.
I have been offered, and given, a listening ear by both friends and family during some dark and sad times these past few months.
I was blessed to have one friend who was willing to come to my house and guide me through breathing exercises, sit with me for an hour or so, and make sure I was okay until my husband came home that night.
I have received patience, support, understanding, encouragement, and love from my husband through both the good things that have happened this year, and through the hardest days I’ve endured in a long time.
I have enjoyed sushi with my sisters, and a lot of laughter and fun when the family has gotten together throughout this year.
I was able to meet my newest niece in the summer and have been able to see her grow over the past several months.
I have been able to spend time with my niece who has grown into a young woman and is venturing out to make her mark on the world.
I have spent time with my husband’s granddaughters who are growing into “little people” as he says, and have met his newest – his first grandson.
Even though I haven’t been to Tawas Point this year, I have enjoyed lunch on a lovely lake – fresh walleye no less.
I have eaten some lovely and delicious cupcakes.
I have been able to enjoy terrific Thai food several times this year.
I have even enjoyed the rather long drives (especially when one is hungry) to get some of the best Mexican food on this side of the state, listening to baseball in the summer and watching the sunset on the way home.
I have loved the long afternoons that turned into evenings that my husband and I have spent at hotels, isolated from the world and all of its problems if even for one night.
Some of the greatest gifts I have enjoyed this year are the memories made and the pictures that captured those memories, making them like gifts that can be opened over and over again.
With Christmas fast approaching and the frantic search for gifts just beginning, I would tell those of you who have me on your list that I’m grateful for the gifts you’ve already given me this year.
I hope that I can give you some special gifts in return, not only this Christmas but throughout the coming new year.